I am very grateful that I was able to attend this year’s Compeer International Conference in Rochester on April 5 -7, 2006. I was honored at the conference for my participation of the definitive new book about our organization, Compeer: Recovery through the Healing Power of Friends. On the first night of the function, Bernice Skirboll, founder of Compeer and editor of the book, recognized me for my accomplishments and for being so forthright in my story. My story was selected for this publication based on my heartfelt account of how Compeer has helped me over the years in my recovery. Sarah Nathan, our new program manager, also attended, and we both agree that Compeer is doing wonderful things throughout the United States and in other countries as well.
A powerful three hour presentation was given by Amy Long, a consumer who works for the National Empowerment Center. The NEC provides technical assistance for consumers and mental health professionals. Veteran consumer advocates Dan Fisher and Judi Chamberlain are also members of the NEC. Ms. Long engrossed the audience, which consisted mostly of providers with her resilience and humor. She reminded them that being a consumer is a role not an identity. That comment is so true! Our mental illness is just part of who we are. One of the most poignant moments of the conference was when Amy visualized a client’s chart and read a very clinical evaluation of a man who seemed to have little or no hope. Ms. Long walked across to the other side of the room and pictured the same man having a much brighter future. The purpose of the demonstration was to show how an evaluation can dehumanize the person and leave him or her with a lifetime of despair. I thought this little exercise was so profound that I believe it will be etched in my mind forever.
Another featured speaker was Eric Weaver, a retired sergeant from the Rochester Police Department. Weaver spoke about his struggle with mental illness while he was still with the police force. During most of his adult life Weaver proudly wore a façade of male bravado. He believed there was nothing he couldn’t handle until he suffered a nervous breakdown. He gave a moving account of how he barricaded himself in his home and how he only came out of his house when his supervisor ordered him to do so. The chain of command was so ingrained in him that only his superior officer could get through to him that he needed help. Today, Weaver trains police officers on how to be sensitive with people who have mental illness while they are in crisis.
The last night of the conference was very special. We were invited to an awards dinner and everyone was dressed for the occasion. Several Compeer professionals accepted awards honoring their long standing dedication to our fine International Organization. One woman, who is the Director of Compeer in Alaska, made me teary-eyed as she spoke of how much fulfillment she gets from going out with her companion. She emphasized that she wanted to share her award with her match. The director has been involved with Compeer for over twenty years, and she runs her program from a tiny office in a basement of a building that doesn’t have any windows. Her commitment to Compeer is truly inspiring.
After the award ceremony, Bernice Skirboll introduced her friend of many years, Herb Katz. Katz is a musical actor who suffers from bipolar disorder. He has written and starred in a one-man play called Depression: The Musical. He was scheduled to perform his play for the audience that night, but was unable to do so because of his depression. However, he was there and answered questions after a video of his one-man play that was shown to the Compeer audience. Katz grew up in Philadelphia and attended Central High School and the University of Pennsylvania. Interestingly, he had so much promise that he was once on the Ed Sullivan Show. The play made me laugh at times, yet much of the humor came out of the performer’s pain. He brilliantly satirized his parents’ reaction to his mental illness by playing both his mother and father, answering each other through song. This was an obvious take off from Fiddler On the Roof, and it was simultaneously heartbreaking and hilarious. After the performance, Sarah and I posed for pictures with Compeer founder Bernice Skirboll and other staff from Compeer International headquarters including Karen Wilk.
The next day was the last day of the conference. While we were eating breakfast, Ben Giambrone, the President of Compeer Inc., thanked his wonderful compassionate staff who give of themselves so fully to make Compeer a first-rate organization. Giambrone envisions making Compeer a household name, and there is no doubt in my mind that the creative people from Compeer International will some day make this goal a reality.
Posted by Jeff Shair
Friend of the Clearinghouse
and Co-chair of the CSP Committee in Philadelphia